Workshop A1
The Enough Abuse Campaign:
Organizing a Movement to End Child Sexual Abuse
Jetta
Bernier, Chair, Massachusetts Child Sexual Abuse Prevention
Partnership
Executive Director, Massachusetts Citizens for Children
The
Massachusetts Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Partnership
(the Partnership) was formed in 2002 with the goal of creating
a statewide movement to eliminate child sexual abuse. The
work of the Partnership has been described by the federal
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention as “trailblazing”,
and has placed Massachusetts in the forefront of a national
effort to prevent child sexual abuse by mobilizing parents
and other adults to prevent the perpetration of child sexual
abuse.
In
this workshop, the presenter described the history
of the Partnership’s approach and the evolution of
its prevention strategy, now referred to as the Enough
Abuse Campaign. The Enough Abuse Campaign includes the
state-level Partnership and its three pilot site communities
of Gloucester, Newton and the nine-town North Quabbin area.
Ms. Bernier detailed the exciting work that is taking
place in the Commonwealth and provided an overview of the
philosophy of the Campaign. Most significantly, she demonstrated how every workshop participant can take the
messages of the Campaign back to their families, colleagues
and communities.
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Workshop B2
Child Sexual Abuse: Prevention Strategies for Your Family & Community
Anne Douglass, EdM, Director,
Burr Cooperative Nursery School
Melissa Gopnik, MBA, Director, Administration & Finance,
Boston Area Rape Crisis Center
This
workshop provided a comprehensive overview of the Enough
Abuse Campaign's approach to the prevention of child sexual
abuse. The Enough Abuse Campaign was developed by Massachusetts
Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Partnership to mobilize adults
and communities to eliminate child sexual abuse in the
Commonwealth. The Campaign’s approach focuses on
1) adult and community responsibility for preventing abuse
and protecting children, and 2) preventing adults and young
people from becoming perpetrators of sexual abuse. This
presentation provided information about the nature
and scope of child sexual abuse, the conditions in our
society that allow it to flourish, and four key prevention
strategies.
Presenters are members of the Newton pilot site of the Enough
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Workshop
C1
Talking to Kids about Sexuality:
Communication Strategies for Parents
Cheryl
Favalora, LICSW, Cape Ann Early Intervention
Susan Warner, LCSW, Social Worker, Gloucester Public Schools
Child
sexual abuse is a problem that most of us wish would just
go away. Many of us are sad and angry to find out that
our families and communities are not always the safe, happy,
caring places that we thought they were. It is hard for
many of us to imagine a friend or loved one ever touching
our children in a sexual way. However, statistics tell
us that child sexual abuse is a very real problem.
Society
is full of messages about sex and sexuality, and these
messages can be confusing to children. People who wish
to sexually abuse children can and do use this confusion
to their advantage when targeting potential victims. Also,
as children grow into adulthood, having accurate information
and a strong sense of personal values is key to having
safe, pleasurable relationships and making healthy decisions.
For these reasons, it is very important that parents talk
with their children about sexuality and their values. Yet
sexuality is a complex and at times confusing subject that
many adults have difficulty defining and/or discussing.
This skill-based workshop taught attendees more
about how to protect our children and encourage their healthy
development.
This
training was developed by Prevent Child Abuse Vermont,
and presenters are members of the Gloucester pilot site
of the Enough Abuse Campaign.^return
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Workshop
D3
The
Prevention of Sexually Abusive Behaviors in Childhood & Adolescence
Rebecca,
J. Bialecki, PhD, Coordinator, North Quabbin Community Coalition
Kathleen Hardie, MPH, Executive Director, Valuing Our Children Program
Eve Bogdanove, MSW, Director, Child & Family Services - Athol
This
interactive workshop worked to help adults understand children’s
sexual behavior and help them respond in ways that will
promote healthy child development. Presenters described
the range of child sexual behaviors from healthy to
unhealthy and taught attendees to recognize the difference.
Workshop participants learned how to interact with children
when confronted with confusing or unhealthy behaviors.
They were taught skills to redirect children’s behavior
in order to promote healthy development and prevent child
sexual abuse. This training program was developed by Gail
Ryan of the Kempe Children’s Center in Denver and
has been used extensively across the country.
Presenters
are members of the North Quabbin pilot site of the Enough
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Workshop
E1
Sex Offender Management, Victim Advocacy & Prevention:
Collaborations for Change
Members
of the Massachusetts Coalition for Sex Offender Management
(MCSOM)
Moderator:
Marci Diamond, MPA, Co-Chair of MCSOM &
Director, Sexual Assault Prevention & Survivor Services,
Massachusetts Department of Public Health
The
mission of the Massachusetts Coalition for Sex Offender Management (MCSOM)
is to promote public safety and health by improving the effectiveness of
sex offender management in Massachusetts and increasing the public's understanding
of sexual abuse and exploitation. MCSOM fosters public and private interagency
relationships to develop and promote effective policy and practice in the
areas of sex offender assessment, identification, enforcement, supervision,
treatment, sentencing, registration, incarceration, community education,
and victim advocacy.
In this
workshop, members of MCSOM provided an overview of the history of state-level
collaborative efforts among victim advocates, the criminal justice/judicial
system, and sex offender treatment providers. Topics for discussion included:
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The
components of specialized sex offender treatment and
how it differs from traditional therapy;
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The
context of treatment as part of the containment approach
with offenders under court-ordered supervision; and,
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The
role of victim advocates in sex offender management.
Panelists
discussed connections between MCSOM and prevention
efforts in Massachusetts. This included a summary of the
recommendations resulting from the forum, Preventing
the Perpetration of Child Sexual Abuse in Massachusetts,
held on March 3, 2004, and the initiatives that resulted.
In particular, panelists outlined the groundbreaking
new collaborative effort between MCSOM and Stop It Now!,
a national non-profit organization that uses the tools
of public health to prevent the perpetration of child sexual
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Workshop
F1/F2
Preventing
Child Sexual Abuse Within Organizations
Janet
Saul, PhD
National Center for Injury Prevention & Control
Centers for Disease Control & Prevention
In
August of 2004, the National Center for Injury Prevention
and Control, a division of the Centers for Disease Control
and Prevention, convened an expert meeting on the organizational
prevention of child sexual abuse. The objectives for this
meeting were to identify: the critical components for preventing
child sexual abuse within organizations; the challenges
for organizations that might hinder adoption of these critical
components; mechanisms for overcoming these challenges;
and, strategies for dissemination and implementation of
the components critical for prevention. In this workshop,
Dr. Saul shared the findings from this expert meeting. ^return
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Workshop
G1/G2
Deflecting
Deception
Anna
C. Salter, PhD
Author of Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists and other Sex Offenders:
Who They Are,
How They Operate and How we Can Protect Ourselves and Our
Children
This
workshop focused on ways parents can protect their children
from sex offenders. It distinguished between detection
and deception as strategies and made the case that only
deflection -- limiting opportunities for access to children
-- will work. It examined places and situations that
draw pedophiles and discussed high risk versus low risk situations.
Finally, it discussed the balance between over-protecting
children (and thus severely restricting their opportunities
for growth) and not protecting them enough (thus allowing
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Workshop
H2/H3
Race,
Prevention & Child Sexual Abuse
La Wanza Lett-Brewington,
Director of Community Education
Everywoman’s Center, University of Massachusetts
This
workshop provided a forum for discussion of best practices
currently used locally and nationally for the prevention
and intervention of child sexual abuse in communities of
color. Participants were encouraged to think critically
about the following:
1)
Child sexual abuse in families of color and how it
manifests itself – Discussion covered the prevalence,
myths and facts, signs of sexual abuse, and six ways in which
molesters and rapists of color are supported by their community.
2)
How issues of discrimination and racism intersect with
child sexual abuse – Discussion
covered “whose” values are the measure of
sexual abuse, using cultural context, and recognizing
our own biases.
3)
How to work effectively with families of color dealing
with child sexual abuse– Discussion covered reporting,
cultural competency, internalized racism and sexism, and
viable options
for the child and family.
Participants
shared what has worked or not worked within
their agencies, and discussed how to apply
best practices exchanged within the workshop. ^return
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Workshop
I3
So
Sexy, So Soon:
The Sexualization of Childhood & What We Can Do about It
Diane
Levin, PhD
Professor of Education, Wheelock College
Today’s
children are growing up in an environment saturated with
images of sexual appearance and behavior that they cannot
fully understand. It can influence how they think about
being male and female, their bodies and what they want
to wear. It can confuse children about the nature of adult
relationships and promote precocious sexuality. This session
explored the current situation, how it is affecting
children, and what we can do to promote healthy development
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Workshop
J1/J2
Speaking
About the Unthinkable:
The Use of Metaphor for Talking About Child Sexual Abuse
Connie
Ostis, PhD, LCSW, Assistant Professor and Child Welfare Specialist
University of Southern Maine School of Social Work
Parents
can best protect their children if they are part of
developing a community-wide support network where everyone
understands how sexual abuse occurs, what to look for,
and how to talk with their children. The challenge
for those working to prevent child sexual abuse, however,
is in creating an atmosphere that allows people to
discuss something they do not want to talk about: the
possibility of their child being sexually abused. Parents
can get overwhelmed with emotions and fears. Yet if
parents can increase their ability to manage their
emotions and become more at ease in talking about sexual
abuse, they in turn will be better able to help their
children recognize abusive relationships and better
able to listen if their child ever has to disclose
abuse.
What
is needed is a medium through which everyone can talk in
the same language as they work together to understand how
sexual abuse can happen and how to reduce the risk of abuse.
In teaching about child sexual abuse, the use of simple,
concrete metaphor allows one to consider a concept, such
as how children are engaged in an abusive relationship,
while talking about something similar, but entirely different,
and definitely not sexual. Listeners can first pay attention
to the non-threatening metaphor and then gradually apply
the ‘insight’ gained to the more threatening
topic of sexual abuse. Teaching adults and children, either
separately or together, through metaphor allows the development
of a simple common language for speaking about
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Workshop
K2/K3
Using
Poetry & Art to Explore Barriers to Prevention
Marta
Sanchez
Survivor, Poet & Artist
This
interactive workshop used a combination of poetry
and art to examine myths about sexual violence and their
effects on child survivors of sexual abuse. The presenter,
Marta Sanchez, is a self-taught visual artist and poet
who was born and raised in the Republic of Panama. She
is a sexual assault survivor and her art is a means of
breaking the silence and healing wounds that no one can
see. Her goal is to raise awareness, and hopefully, prevent
sexual violence from happening to others.
Ms.
Sanchez displayed pieces from “The Angel Series”,
part of her current works, and facilitated a discussion
on how the series addresses the way society views survivors
of sexual violence. Participants used “The Angel
Series” to consider how important it is to reassure
children that sexual violence is never the victim’s
fault, no matter the circumstances.
Participants left the workshop with a well-developed understanding of
the pervasiveness of victim blaming and how they can counter it in their individual
and collective efforts to end child sexual abuse. ^return
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Workshop
L2/L3
When
There Is No Evidence to Report: An Opportunity for Prevention
Amanda
Horowitz, Helpline Coordinator, Stop It Now!
Joan Tabachnick, Public Education Director, Stop It Now!
As parents,
relatives, community members and professionals, we sometimes
see an adult or older youth acting in ways
towards a child that concern us. We may develop a “gut
feeling” that something is not right. We may recognize
in an adult or adolescent the warning signs for the development
of sexually abusive behaviors towards children. However,
often we do not know for sure that a child has been harmed
or that the risk exists.
Stop
It Now!, a national non-profit organization using the tools
of public health to prevent the perpetration of child sexual
abuse, refers to these situations as “yellow light” or “at-risk.” Adults
in “yellow light” situations have expressed
that they are concerned, but do not know what to do. These
adult family members feel compelled to take action to protect
the child from possible or future abuse, yet there is no
evidence of sexual abuse to report. Stop It Now! has created
a framework for responding to these situations through
activating and engaging the family or community.
This
workshop presented information about Stop It Now!’s
approach to preventing the perpetration of child sexual
abuse. The presenters offered specific information about
what has been learned through the Stop It Now! Helpline
and how this knowledge has guided and shaped our prevention
work. Focus was placed on what adults can do in “yellow
light” situations to prevent a child from being harmed.
Through case examples and an interactive format,
participants
discussed the available options and necessary tools to motivating
adults to have conversations with other adults, as well
as the concrete steps they can take to prevent the perpetration
of child sexual abuse. ^return
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